Chemical Addiction in Intimate Relationships: The Neurobiology of Trauma Bonding and Emotional Dependency

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DOI: 10.21522/TIJAR.2014.13.02.Art009

Authors : Tolulope Oko-Igaire

Abstract:

The neurobiological reinforcement of trauma bonding and emotional dependency in intimate relationships is increasingly being understood as a process, as opposed to a purely psychological pattern. This review integrates evidence on fifteen peer-reviewed articles to investigate the interaction between dopaminergic reward systems, oxytocin-mediated bonding systems, cortisol-induced stress responses, and reinforcement-learning processes to maintain maladaptive attachment despite the occurrence of relational inconsistency, conflict cycles, or intermittent affection. The key goal was to combine the results of addiction neuroscience, attachment theory, and trauma psychology to have a single explanation of the continuity of the emotionally dysregulated relational bonds. Five major databases were searched in a structured literature search, and 612 records were located; 15 records were included in the study that was analyzed using thematic synthesis based on reward processing, attachment neuropeptides, HPA-axis regulation and cognitive-emotional conditioning. Findings indicate that trauma bonding is the result of a vicious cycle of increased dopamine-based reward sensitivity, oxytocin-based trust and emotional proximity, cortisol-related hyperarousal, and attachment-based cognitive distortions. These interdependent systems produce the addiction-like patterns of stress, relief and reconnection that strengthen emotional dependence in spite of misery. The review finds that trauma bonding is a neurobiological phenomenon that is multisystemic and needs to be addressed with trauma-informed and neurobiologically oriented therapy in order to be effectively treated. More studies are required to develop specific clinical resources and models that would help to overcome these complicated relational dynamics.

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