Exploring Emotional Intimacy, Grief, and Family Dynamics in Octogenarians: Implications for Redefining Geriatric Care
Abstract:
The global population of octogenarians is rising rapidly, posing significant challenges for geriatric care. This study applies a neuropsychosocial perspective, integrating geriatric psychiatry, neurobiology, social psychology, and elder law, to review literature on emotional vitality, grief, sexuality, and boundary concerns in octogenarians. Findings show that companionship, intimacy, and family engagement remain central to well-being but are often disrupted by bereavement, loneliness, and social isolation. Contrary to common assumptions, aging does not eliminate sexual expression. However, this creates a dual reality: in which certain older adults face risks of exploitation, whereas others, especially older men, may transgress relational boundaries. Current care frameworks focus mainly on preventing neglect and abuse, yet inadequately address sexuality and relational well-being. A shift toward holistic geriatric care is needed, emphasizing dignity, emotional vitality, structured grief counseling, intimacy-focused interventions, caregiver training, and family education to reduce psychological distress and improve quality of life among octogenarians.References:
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